Pathways  through Grief

A 6-day grief retreat





- For those who have lost someone dear-

Algarve. Portugal


A Safe Space to Pause, Breathe and Tend to your grief


You are walking with grief.

When someone you love dies, life soon continues, you return to work, you care for others, you try and step back into the rhythm of everyday life.
Everything seems to move on, while a part of you stays behind: not ready, not knowing how to give space to what was lost. And still, you keep going.


Grief asks us to pause. To breathe. To tend gently to what we carry in our hearts.


Pathways through Grief is a 6-day immersion for those who have lost someone dear, created as a sacred pause, a time to honour loss, to express what lives within, and to gently open to renewal.


Held in the wild, nourishing nature of southwest Portugal, this retreat offers a safe, caring space where body, mind, and soul can rest, be tended to, and begin to heal. This is not just a holiday, but a deeply meaningful time for yourself, a moment you’ll look back on knowing you gave yourself, and your grief, the gift of attention, presence, and care. A week to remember, to breathe, to listen and to discover how you might carry your grief differently: with more ease, softness, and connection as you return home.


Why You Belong Here


Maybe it’s been years, maybe only months since you lost your loved one, a partner, a child, a parent, or someone else close to your heart. You’ve found ways to manage, to stay “strong,” to move on. You’ve kept going through work, family, daily routines, yet somewhere inside, a part of you holds the ache of what was lost.

There’s a quiet longing: to stop for a moment, to breathe, to meet what’s waiting inside. You know it’s important, you want to, but you don’t know how. There’s no real space in between it all, and it feels unfamiliar, maybe even scary, to go there alone.

You belong here if you feel that longing.
If you sense your grief hasn’t yet found its place, or that your heart needs gentler company to open again.
If you long for a deeper moment to truly honour your loss, to give it the attention it deserves.


This is where we begin.

This retreat offers the space and safety to slow down, breathe, and gently meet your grief, with guidance, care, and the quiet support of nature and others who understand. Here, in the soft rhythm of rest and presence, new strength and connection can begin to grow, a tender renewal that you’ll carry home within you.


The Setting & Practical Details


Pathways through Grief takes place in the wild, nourishing nature of southwest Portugal, near Aljezur, a landscape of ocean cliffs, beautiful beaches, soft hills, and endless sky. We’ll stay at Palmas Lodge, a homely and peaceful retreat house surrounded by gardens, oak trees, and open land. You’ll wake to the sounds of nature and the ocean, enjoy fresh, nourishing meals, and rest deeply in simple comfort.There’s a pool for quiet swims, paths for walks, and plenty of space for solitude and reflection.


We gather in an intimate group of up to ten people, allowing space for genuine connection and personal attention.
Accommodation is offered in shared or single ensuite bedrooms, each warmly designed and close to nature. A limited number of single rooms is available.


Dates 2026
Summer Retreat: June 28 – July 3
Autumn Retreat: November 15 – 20


Included in Your Stay

Your week includes everything to help you arrive feeling supported, held, and ready to receive:


  • 6 nights of accommodation at Palmas Lodge- a peaceful, homely retreat house surrounded by nature

  • Three healthy, home-cooked meals each day, made with seasonal, mostly local and vegetarian ingredients (vegan and gluten-free options available)

  • Daily morning mindful grief sessions with Elisabeth - weaving mindfulness, reflection, and guided griefwork practice

  • Afternoon practices with guest facilitators: movement, sound, creativity, ritual, and ceremony

  • Opening and closing circle, to begin and complete our shared journey together

  • One individual massage treatment 60 min, offering deep relaxation and integration

  • Pre-retreat intake and connection call with Elisabeth- including a short questionnaire and a personal call to connect, ask questions, and prepare for your retreat

  • After-retreat connection call with Elisabeth, for reflection and gentle integration once you’re back home

  • Access to optional online sessions for continuing grief work and support after the retreat


Everything is created with care, so you can slow down, reconnect, and give yourself this meaningful time of attention and renewal.

Pricing

  • Shared ensuite room: €1,750

  • Single ensuite room: €1,950 (limited availability)

Early-bird offer: Book before February 15, 2026 and receive a €100 early-bird discount - €1,650 shared / €1,850 single.


If you join us through an affiliate recommendation, your 5 % discount is already included in the price, a small thank you for finding your way to us through our trusted network.


Booking

To reserve your place, simply reach out!


You’ll receive full booking details and payment information personally from Elisabeth.

Travel to the venue is not included. The nearest airports are Faro (1.5 hours)and Lisbon (3 hours). A car rental is recommended, and shared transport can be arranged closer to the date.


If you feel called to join, or would like to receive more details, please get in touch to reserve your space.

You are warmly welcome - to rest, to breathe, and to give yourself this rare and meaningful gift of renewal.


How You Will Go Home


After six days of slowing down, being held by nature, rest, reflection, ceremony, movement and shared presence, you will go home changed. Not because your grief has disappeared, but because you have learned to hold it differently.

You will have given your love and your loss the space they deserve, and discovered ways to stay connected with your loved one in everyday life. You may notice that your body feels softer, your breath deeper, your heart a little more open. That you can meet your grief with more gentleness, rather than resistance.

You will carry home the quiet knowing that your grief and your love belong and that they can move with you, not against you. This retreat is not about letting go; it’s about weaving what was lost into how you live forward, with more presence, compassion, and strength.


An Invitation

If something in these words touches you, trust that gentle pull.
Pathways through Grief offers a space where you don’t have to do anything or be anyone other than who you are right now.If you feel ready to give yourself this time, to pause, to listen, to honour what matters, you are warmly invited to join us in southwest Portugal.


Weekly Program in a nutshell

This week is a deeply nourishing journey, held with care, skill, and heart.


  • Each day begins in mindful presence: guided meditation, reflection, and gentle griefwork with Elisabeth. These morning sessions invite calm, awareness, and honesty, a quiet tending to what lives within you.
  • Afterwards there is time to rest and enjoy: receive a nourishing massage (included in your stay), wander through the gardens, swim in the pool, or walking the road to a remote beach.
    If you have a car, you might explore the wild coastline or simply sit beneath a tree and listen to the sounds of nature.
  • Later, we gather for explorative sessions of movement, gentle yin yoga, sound, creativity, and expression - ways for the body and heart to open and integrate what words cannot say.
    We touch the elements, water, earth, fire, and air, through ritual, ceremony, and shared presence. These circles are alive with both depth and lightness: laughter and silence, connection and rest, moments of discovery and renewal.


Our homey retreat house, surrounded by the wild beauty of southwest Portugal, offers both shared and single rooms where you can wake to birdsong, feel the morning sun, and rest deeply at night.


If you see yourself here, breathing more freely, feeling the earth under your feet, laughing with others who understand, know that this week is an invitation to give yourself a rare and meaningful gift: time. Time to remember, to restore, to reconnect with life in its wholeness. You will go home with a softer heart, a steadier breath, and the quiet knowing that you are not alone and that life can once again move through you with grace and light.

The Team of Pathways Through Grief retreat.


  • Elisabeth Tiesinga will be your main host, facilitator and companion. I love to guide spaces where grief, tenderness and renewal meet and to support others in finding meaning, expression and life again. Read more about me here. 
  • Catarina Silva will support me in holding the space throughout the retreat with her grounded and deeply present energy. She will also bring the gifts of gentle Yin and Nidra yoga, sound, and voice to guide moments of connection and inner listening. Her presence invites calm, openness, and a sense of being safely held.
  • Our culinary team, Ana and Xana, see food as much more than what we put into our bodies. It’s connection, creativity, and care in action. As passionate food activists, they bring seasonal, local ingredients to life with imagination and heart, offering meals that nourish not only your body, but also your spirit and sense of belonging.
  • Each participant receives a well-deserved massage with Ivana, one of the most gifted holistic practitioners I’ve met. Her deeply restorative touch invites relaxation, helps release what the body has been holding, and supports gentle integration through care, presence, and skill.


Guest Facilitators

Throughout the week, we are joined by talented guest facilitators whose artistry and presence beautifully align with our shared journey through grief. They offer unique sessions that deepen connection through movement, sound, stillness, ritual, and ceremony - such as meditative harp concerts, Qi Gong practices, sweat lodge ceremonies, and nature rituals.
Each experience is designed to gently support integration, renewal, the finding of meaning, and a sense of belonging.

Guest sessions may vary depending on facilitator availability and the season of the retreat.

Who This is For


This retreat is for those who have lost someone dear, recently or long ago, and sense it’s time to give that loss more space.
It’s for people who have been carrying their grief quietly, while life has kept moving: showing up for work, caring for others, doing what needs to be done. It’s for you if you feel that something inside wants to be met, expressed, or simply held, yet you haven’t found the right place or moment to do so.


It’s for the ones who say:

“I’ve never really allowed myself to grieve.”
“I thought I was fine, but I still carry it with me.”
“I don’t know how to be with it, or where to begin."


It’s for you if you long for a pause, to take a breath, to step away from the noise of everyday life. For you if you want to be in an environment where nothing needs fixing and everything is welcome. You may come with questions, memories, or emotions that feel too big or too subtle to name. You may simply feel the need to pause, to rest, to reconnect with yourself and your loved one in a new way.


Here, you’ll be supported in turning toward your loss, in your own rhythm and way, in a space where you don’t have to explain, perform, or hold back. Whatever brings you here, you’ll be met with warmth, care, and understanding and gently supported in finding your own way toward renewal, strength, and connection


Also available as individual retreat. Contact me for more information. 

Reviews

Shaini Verdon

Founder of Yogaion retreats & Soulsculpt 


When I started hosting retreats, almost 15 years ago, I was working mostly on my own. Inviting Liz to join was one of the best decisions I ever made. With her background as a KLM purser, she brought incredible organisational skills, but what truly makes her extraordinary is her presence with people.


Liz is one of the best listeners I’ve ever met. As a friend and as a facilitator, she has a rare ability to truly see and hear the person in front of her. During the retreats, while I was often leading classes, Liz was the one who created those quiet, intimate spaces where women felt safe to open up. She connected deeply with each participant, and her warmth and attentiveness touched everyone.


Her mindfulness sessions were simply spectacular, grounded, heartfelt, and full of gentle clarity. She combines a hands-on, can-do attitude with a deeply centred, mindful presence. With her background in doula and grief work, she holds space with grace and strength, making her a truly remarkable retreat host and facilitator.


It’s an absolute joy to work alongside Liz. She brings both structure and soul to every retreat. I highly recommend joining Liz her grief retreat.

Nadja


Through Liz her gentle guidance and deep listening, I was able to connect with my emotions in a new way – not to fix them or move past them, but to acknowledge them, feel them, and begin to understand how to live with them.


A very meaningful moment was a grief ritual by the ocean. That ritual became a quiet, intimate moment of connection – not just with myself, but with my late husband. Surrounded by the sound of the waves and the openness of the horizon, I felt calm and close to him.

During the grief ritual that followed, my tears came freely, and with Liz by my side, they were met with compassion and care. 


Liz has helped me shift how I relate to my grief – not as something to push away, but something to hold with softness. And she has taught me how to breathe.


Our conversations continue to support me deeply, offering both comfort and quiet insight

Thank you, Liz.

Paula


"Liz holds a beautiful and safe space. I felt carried, understood and safe while sharing. She offers great tools to take home with.  

I felt I am not alone, I felt a lot lighter and in peace with myself and my grief, which is part of me."


Christine


" Liz is kind, knowledgeable, understanding, and made me feel very comfortable sharing my feelings.  Grief is part of the circle of life, but being able to share my thoughts with others who are also grieving, makes the process a bit more manageable.  It takes a village".


Maria


" Grief is something that is alive in me, some days more then others, and doesn’t always get the attention that it should.

The grief group gave space for this and it felt heartbreaking although comforting to hear other peoples stories.

We can support and help each other, listen and create space to grief together (instead of always alone).

Liz is an amazing coach with a lots of knowledge, tools and exercises that helped me a lot in my journey".